A Woman of Character.

We are in a series called "Cooties" in middle school at River Pointe. We are talking about dating, sex, and relationships and how they correlate to our relationship with God. And what it looks like in our lives as middle schoolers, high schoolers, and adults. This is the outline that Shelley Pizzitola gave to our girls when she spoke to them. I thought it was genius and right on point. Feel free to use this. Enjoy.

The secrEt 2 boys

River Pointe Church | Middle School Girls | February 21, 2010
By Shelley Pizzitola

What does God say?

The Secret to Boys was God’s idea.
The Secret to Boys’ Hearts is Purity and Character in me.

SecretText Code:

S2Bh=P+C n Me (Secret to Boy's heart= Purity and Character in me)

Purity & Character in real life: What is it? What does a girl of character do?
-see Proverbs 31:10-31

She trusts God.
-This makes her fearless and courageous.

She is honest.
-This means she does what is right, even when no one is looking.

She is hard working.
-This means she has skills that she practices in order to improve herself.

She exudes dignity.
-She cares more about what God thinks of her than what boys think of her.

She is faithful.
-She studies God’s word, she prays, and she can make great decisions.

She is strong.
-She trusts God to see her through the hard stuff. -This gives her confidence to say “no” to friends, pressure, fear, and boys.